Oral sex features in many of our fantasies, but for lots of people it’s still taboo.
Common fears Some people are reluctant to try oral sex, or even to suggest it, because they fear rejection. Disgust also plays a part, as lots of men and women are brought up to consider their genitals to be unsavoury.
Women might be convinced their partners will find their labia too big, too wrinkled or too hairy; men, that they’ll be laughed at for not being sufficiently big, upright or straight.
Both may be scared the other will object to the smell or the taste, and that they’ll feel vulnerable if they surrender themselves to being given pleasure by their partner.
But the truth is that many people would really like to offer to perform oral sex for their partner.
What makes oral sex so appealing? The fact that this form of pleasure is still seen by some as forbidden, and even a bit dirty, adds excitement. When your partner chooses to be in such intimate contact, it’s like being told that, far from being unattractive, you’re good enough and special enough to eat. It can feel like the ultimate expression of acceptance.
There’s something irresistible about being treated in this way. Even though you can do it to each other at the same time, it’s usually a case of one person lying back and having all their desires and needs attended to.
The mouth, lips and tongue have a dynamite combination of flexibility and softness that can’t help but please. You can kiss, lick, suck or nibble. Some people prefer gentle movements; others prefer firmer attention. It’s up to you to discover your particular preferences together.
Talk about it Discussing your concerns with your partner can really help. For example, if one person is happy to perform oral sex but refuses to receive it, the other might end up feeling guilty, because he’s unable to return the pleasure he experiences to his partner, as well as rejected and untrusted.
Of course, it could be that the first partner is afraid to let him see, taste, smell and touch her, and perhaps simply needs to hear in no uncertain terms, “I love your body. I’d give anything to taste you.”
Don’t cover up If you’d like to try oral sex with your partner, it’s only courteous to make sure you’re clean first. But don’t forget that the natural taste and smell of your body may well be what attracts them the most, so don’t cover up with perfumes or deodorant.
Many people are turned on by the sight, taste and smell of their partner’s most intimate parts. If it’s a new partner, it’s advisable to use a condom or dental dam (thin latex that lines the mouth) to screen secretions and prevent infection.
If you feel embarrassed Try it after a bath or shower. When you’re clean and fresh, you’ll feel more comfortable. Worried about the way you look? Dimming the lights and lighting candles can boost your confidence.
Names for oral sex .Oral sex is often known as a soixante neuf or sixty-nine, because of the shape two bodies make when lying mouth-to-genitals.
.When one person performs oral sex on another, this is sometimes called a ’sixty-eight’ (“You do me and I’ll owe you one”).
.Stimulation of the vagina with the mouth is called cunnilingus; stimulation of the penis with the mouth is called fellatio.
What not to do Although oral sex is known as a ‘blow job’, the one thing you should never do is blow into your partner’s body. You could cause an embolism (obstruction of an artery by an air bubble) or infection. But many people like their partner to blow gently on skin made damp by licking.
The World’s first Sex Robot by True Companion
She is anatomically consistent with a human, so you can have a talk or have sex. She is “Always Turned On and Ready to Talk or Play”! Have a Conversation or Sex – It is Up to You!
The Story Behind “Roxxxy TrueCompanion”: The initial concept for the current sex robot began with a conversation several years ago. A friend and Douglas Hines were remembering a dear friend who passed away. Douglas thought that it was sad to not be able to ever talk to him again. He said “wouldn’t it be great if I could create a robot with artificial intelligence and have it hold someone’s personality and preferences – this way, we could talk to the robotic version of that person and ask it questions whenever we wanted”? We thought it was a great idea though we both agreed that it would be a very big undertaking.
After test marketing, the concept changed in order to capitalize on the enormous adult entertainment industry.
True Companion has designed such a sex robot.
World’s First Sex Robot: Debuts at AVN
Who is TrueCompanion.com:
TrueCompanion.com is comprised of a collection of very skilled artists and engineers that have designed the world’s first sex robot. Your TrueCompanion.com robot will deliver the ultimate in robot sex. She will also be able to talk, listen, carry on a conversation, feel your touch and be your true friend. She can also have an orgasm when you touch her!
The True companion website: http://www.truecompanion.com/about.html
Check out the youtube video of Roxxxy the sex robot at the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo:
I just love this anime and I love the manga !!!! hihihihi I was sooo happy when I found this anime !!! hihihihi just love it and the animation is good. But it’s not a anime for people that don’t like blood ( even if it’s not sooo much blood yet) this is a teen and adult anime I think
Alternative title:
Baile en la federación de vampiros (Spanish)
ダンスインザヴァンパイアバンド (Japanese)
Genres: Action, Adult, Ecchi, Horror,Mature, Romance, Seinen, Smut, Supernatural
Themes: vampire
Author(s) Tamaki Nozomu (manga)
Plot Summary: Mina Tepes, the Princess of the ancient covenant and ruler of all vampires, wants her race to stop hiding from the humans. Using her vast wealth, she has paid off Japan’s entire national debt and, by doing so, gained the right to create an own district off Japan’s coast that is to become the future heaven to vampires worldwide. But on the eve of the press conference announcing the existence of vampires to the world, terrorists and rival factions are plotting to assassinate Mina Tepes before she has a chance to make her world-changing announcement.
cast
Aoi Yūki as Mina Tepes
Yuuichi Nakamura as Akira Kaburagi Regendorf
Akeno Watanabe as Nerra
Asuka Tanii as Nero
Chiwa Saito as Yuki Saegusa
Eri Kitamura as Nelly
Jouji Nakata as Wolf
Shizuka Itou as Nanami Shinonome
Yu Kobayashi as Miha
Yuko Kaida as Vera
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Dance In The Vampire Bund Episode 1
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Dance in the Vampire Bund Vol.01 Ch.001: The Covenant
Valentines Day is rapidly approaching!! Only 30 sleeps to go. Your Christmas decorations should be down by now, and your credit card should be starting to recover. Or not.
I have put in a new category over at the shop, and featured all of our Valentines Day Specials on the front page. Chiquita’s Picks are things I have tested and really like. To be frank, if it gets me off, I like it, these are things that are a little bit special, things that really tickle my, umm, fancy..
As it is Valentines Day, I have an extra special something for my blog readers. Both of you…
When you order, use the comments section to tell me that your toy is for Valentines Day, and I will include a box of chocolates in your order! The perfect pick me up to get your energy back, and go again!
If you are lesbian or bisexual, I hope you will read and participate in this blog. Although I am the official author, I welcome participation by many women as you submit your experiences and thoughts for publication. If you would like to submit something, my e-mail address is ltlez@yahoo.com.
I also encourage bi-curious women to read and participate. Many women who are now lesbian or bisexual started by being bi-curious. Their curiosity led to their enjoyment of relationships with other women, and their status changed as a result.
Please watch this site in the future for new posts that I hope will interest you.
You’re f*cking high! Are you out of your mind? This sucks! This house is a f*cking prison! On planet bullsh*t! In the galaxy of this f*cking sucks!!
What are we gonna do now????
This is for the BF. I know I should be reading. Infections can be fun! But this is funner. Here is the clip you were looking for. Fast forward to the 5:30 mark. We are a little behind in the movie watching…but hey, it was still on the new release wall even if there were only two copies. It counts!
(This is from the website Funny or Die. Off the Starz special from the movie. (Thanks for putting it on the web) If you can’t see it directly, which is most likely the case because I can’t embed it here, click on the link below. Hopefully I got it to work somehow. You are welcome!)
FYI This contains VERY BAD language! Not for the youngsters!!
Just shy of a month ago, I posed the question of “What’s the most klutzy thing you’ve ever done” as my “Just Curious” question of the day. Some of the responses were pouring boiling water on their leg, falling down stairs and breaking their nose while trying to tie their shoes. Stupid me told the truth and answered the question with “I crapped my pants in my sister’s kitchen once”. This of course opened up a pretty large can of worms and everyone agreed that I owe them the whole story. You can read that post and comments here.
Here is my story, sad but true…..
After my divorce, I was forced to move back in with my parents for a short time. Just long enough to get back on my feet again. During that time, I always felt like I was imposing on my parents even though they tried making it abundantly clear that I was not. None the less, I still felt that way and tried to stay out of their house as much as possible to stay out of their way. I spent a lot of time at different friends’ on week nights and weekends and at my sister’s place. I started dating again and just stayed out of their hair as much as I could.
My sister at that time was a single mother and having a pretty rough time financially. She had her own place and car but it was a huge struggle to pay for them. I would come over to visit her and bring dinner with me a few times a week and we would eat and hang out together at her place. Shortly after I started coming over to hang out, she started dating a guy that she worked with. They started out going out on weekends and I even double dated with them a couple times to get to know him a bit. I liked him and before you knew it, he moved in with my sister. They are now married with children and have been married for 12 years now.
Anyway, back to the story. Even though Eric was living with my sister, I still came over to visit my sister as often. The three of us got along really well and had fun hanging out doing whatever. One night, we all consumed a little too much alcohol and decided it would be best for me to stay the night there instead of getting behind the wheel of a car and driving to my parents. I crashed on the couch and my sister and Eric slept in their bedroom. There was something I had to get up for the next morning and I honestly can’t remember now what it was. Work? Picking up my son from his mothers? I don’t remember what it was now but it was something I had to get up and do. I didn’t have an alarm clock next to me on the couch so my sister asked if I would like her to set an alarm for me and wake me up in the morning. “Thanks sis, that would be great” I responded.
Unfortunately, I DID NOT sleep well that night at all. That couch was the most uncomfortable thing I have ever laid upon. I tossed and turned almost the whole night trying to get comfortable enough to fall asleep. I FINALLY feel asleep right before the sun came up but woke up when it started shining through the window so I decided to just get up. When I got up, I started hearing my stomach start to grumble and make some pretty funky noises.
Now I don’t know about you but not EVERYONE throws up after drinking too much. I usually have problems with the other end if you know what I mean. It really depends on what I had been drinking but whatever I was drinking the night before was letting me know it was coming out. Not later…..NOW! I got off the couch and literally RAN to the bathroom and turned the handle on the door only to find it locked. “Who’s there” I heard Eric ask. “It’s me man, I gotta go”. “Are you going to be in there much longer” I asked in a voice that would disguise the fact that I’m about to shit my pants. “No, give me two minutes” Eric said.
Two minutes went by and the door never opened. Another two minutes went by and the door STILL never opened. Five more minutes went by and still no sign of the FUCKING door opening. I was pacing around my sisters apartment with terrible stomach cramps feeling like I was going into labor or something. The pain just kept getting worse and worse so I paced more and more. Down the hallway, into the living room, into the dining room and into the kitchen and then back again. I paced like that for what seemed to be friggin hours.
Finally, I stopped pacing in the kitchen when I thought I heard the door open. I stood there clenching my cheeks together as hard as I could and listened. I heard the bathroom door open and then Eric walking out the front door to go to work. “THANK GOD” I remember saying to myself. As I slowly began to unclench my cheeks, I quickly found out that it wasn’t going to happen. The more I unclenched, the more something began peeking out. “OMG, what the hell am I going to do” I remember asking myself. The longer I stood there clenching, the more my stomach hurt. I HAD to do SOMETHING!! I devised a plan in which when the stomach pain would subside for a moment, I would unclench and get to the bathroom as quickly as possible.
I waited and I waited and my stomach pain began to subside. I knew I only had a few moments before they started back up again so I slowly unclenched my cheeks and prayed. Unfortunately, my prayers were not answered and I began to squirt like a can of cheese whiz. Actually, squirt is a bit of an understatement. It was more like projectile shitting but luckily I had my jeans and underwear to stop it from spraying the kitchen cabinets and walls. I just stood there with my eyes closed and enjoyed the moment. What else could I do?
After I appeared to be done, it was time to open my eyes and access the damage. As you can imagine, the damage was quite substantial. The first thing I did was remove my socks, followed by my jeans and undies which left me standing in my sisters kitchen wearing only a t-shirt. The next plan of attack was to find something to start cleaning up with so I could get to the shower without dripping shit all over the carpet. I walked over to the pantry and found a brand spanking new roll of paper towels. “PERFECT” I thought. I opened up the paper towels like a kid on Christmas morning and began the “pre-showering” cleanup phase of the cleanup process. I thought it would be best to start at the top and work my way down and began wiping…well…..EVERYWHERE.
While reaching for more paper towels, I saw something move out of the corner of my eye. I quickly turned my head and there stood my sister in the entryway to the kitchen. There I stood in her kitchen wearing only a t-shirt, holding shit filled paper towels and standing behind a rather large pool of shit on her kitchen floor. We both just looked at each other with a “deer in the headlight” look. Neither of us really knew what to say to one another so my sister just turned and walked back to her bedroom without saying a word.
I finished the cleanup process, showered, wrapped a towel around me and got the hell out of there. I did NOT want to be there when my sister decided to get back out of bed. Later that night, I returned for a little visit. NOTHING was said about what had happened that morning for quite sometime. It was just like any other day. We just hung out and did whatever. Out of the clear blue, my sister speaks up and says “By the way, I came to wake you up this morning when the alarm went off and I noticed you were already up”. “Were you REALLY standing in my kitchen with shit all over the place or was I dreaming” she asked. We all just laughed.
I normally like to have a photo to go along with my posts. I apologize for not having one for this one. I didn’t have a blog back then when this happened so I never really thought about a photo. Maybe next time?
click to watch anime
Dance In The Vampire Bund Episode 1
click to read anime
Dance in the Vampire Bund Vol.01 Ch.001: The Covenant
